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Managing Stress

Managing Stress

We are often subject to stress, the chronic and primarily psychological pressures of modern life. Yet we also suffer consequences when the body’s biological mechanisms for handling stress go awry. Fortunately, we have the ability to control our reaction to stressful situations.

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Stress Facts

85 percent of adults know that they may suffer adverse health effects from stress

An estimated 75-90 percent of doctor’s visits are related to symptoms caused by stress

Stress has been linked to leading causes of death – heart disease, cancer lung ailments, accidents and suicide, as well as numerous other disorders.

Unmanaged stress can suppress the immune system

People under constant stress may accumulate fat around their abdomen due to higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol.

What is Stress?

Stress occurs when there is a mismatch between the demands we experience and the resources we have to deal with those demands. A stressor is a situation, event or demand that causes stress. Stress is not an event, but our reaction to that event. When left unchecked, physical, emotional, and mental resources can become depleted, leading to illness symptoms of chronic stress including:

Fatigue

Chronic muscle tension and headaches

Chest pain and a rapid heart rate

Frequent illnesses or infections such as colds

Intestinal problems or pain

High blood pressure

Changes in appetite

Insomnia and teeth grinding

Overeating

Procrastination

Irritability and lashing out

Increase in smoking, drinking or drug use

Reckless driving

Negativity

In order to overcome and change some of our negative responses to stress, we can use alternate strategies including:

Talking

Laughing

Exercising

Prayer or meditation

Practicing coping and relaxation skills

Improving organizational and time management skills

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Categorize Your Stressors

A helpful exercise is to list all your stressors. Include everything – traffic, workload, disorganization, lack of communication, relationships, illness, housework, etc. You might find that simply creating the list makes you feel a little more in control. Take each item on your list and ask yourself two questions about each one:

1. How important is it?

2. Can I control or change it?

Focus most of your resources on those stressors that are important and controllable. Action is when you do something that actively changes a situation. Examples of actions include learning time management skills, using problem solving skills, practicing assertive communication or implementing money management.

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Stress Coping Techniques

Coping skills help offset the negative effects of stress. They do not change the situation, but they give you a positive outlet and help your mind and body rest, rejuvenate and recover. They include: physical activity/exercise, a nutritious diet, adequate sleep, using positive thoughts, finding fun and laughter and effective time management.

Practice Quick Relaxation Exercises

Practice quick relaxation techniques such as:

Deep breathing

Visual imagery

Listening to music

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Christian Ways to Reduce Stress

Christian Ways to Reduce Stress

Ten years ago a co-worker gave me this list and I have kept a copy of it on my desk ever since. It is still relevant today and I hope you find it helpful on this “Feel Good Friday”

  1. Pray

  2. Go to bed on time

  3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed

  4. Say, “no” to projects that won’t fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health

  5. Delegate tasks to capable others unclutter your desk

  6. Simplify and unclutter your life

  7. Less is more (although one is often not enough, two are often too many

  8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places

  9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don’t lump the hard things all together

  10. Take one day at a time

  11. Separate worries from concern. If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can’t do anything about a situation, forget it.

  12. Live within your budget; don’t use credit cards for ordinary purchases

  13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.

  14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut) This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble

  15. Do something for the KID IN YOU everyday kid in you

  16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line (there’s an app for that now)

  17. Get enough rest

  18. Eat right

  19. Get organized so everything has its place

  20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life

  21. Write down thoughts and inspirations

  22. Every day, find time to be alone

  23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot…Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don’t wait until it’s time to go to bed to try and pray

  24. Make friends with Godly people

  25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand picjumbo.com_HNCK5063

  26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good “Thank you Jesus!”

  27. Laugh

  28. Laugh some more

  29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all

  30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can)

  31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most)

  32. Sit on your ego

  33. Talk less; listen more

  34. Slow down

  35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe

  36. Every night before bed, think of one thing you’re grateful for that you’ve never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU. “If God is for us, who can be against us?” (Romans 8:31)

 

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Turn Your Shower into a Spa with Essio (ess-ee-oh)

Disclosure: I received the Aromatherapy Shower Kit in order to facilitate this review, however, opinions are 100% my own.

Hello friends, after a long, strenuous workout the first thing that I want to do is take a long, hot shower….naw…who am I kidding, you know I don’t engage in long, strenuous workouts!  I do however, work hard around the house and if you follow me on Instagram you would have seen my recently painted basement.

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Whether your strenuous exercise comes from a workout with weights or from house and yard work, sometimes you want more than just a plain hot water shower. The Essio Aromatherapy Shower Kit turns an ordinary shower into a personal spa. 

Aromatherapy is an ancient therapeutic practice with many benefits including improved mood and energy, reduced inflammation, increased blood circulation, improved skin tone and reduced stress.

The Essio Aromatherapy Shower Kit comes with one shower arm and 3 essential oil pods.  These pods contain 100% organic, pure and sourced from the finest oils in the world however, they do not leave an oily residue.  There are no harsh chemicals or additives and the pods are recyclable. essio Aromatherapy Shower Kit

There are six Essio Essential Oil Blends and the kit I received contained the following blends:

Breathe which is a refreshing blend of peppermint and eucalyptus that helps to clear the sinuses, decrease congestion and stimulates the entire body.

Passion is an blend of mandarin orange, lavender and patchouli which is a sensual aroma that arouses the mind and senses.

Unwind is an uplifting fragrance of citrus with spice and floral tones, creating a sense of lightness and stress relief.

The essential oil pods last for approximately 3-5 showers and these scents as well as others can be ordered directly from www.essioshower.com.

The Essio aromatheraphy shower arm is easy to install and extends beyond the length of a normal shower head with a gentle pull.  After removing a pod from the tray, take off the cap and attach it to the end of the arm with a gentle 1/4 counter-clockwise turn.  Turn on the water then tilt the pod downward under the stream of water to experience a spa shower. essio Aromatherapy Shower Kit

I am excited to announce that Essio is offering my readers a chance to win their own Aromatherapy Shower Kit, but you need to enter quickly because this sweepstakes will end at midnight November 27th click this link to enter: http://bit.ly/1uSWBTY 

If you want to order a kit now to be given as a holiday gift, you’ll receive 25% off any order at www.essioshower.com, by using the code SAVE25 at checkout. Good luck!

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Stay Blessed ~ No Stress in 2014!

Me workout…haha very funny!

 


5 Ways To Relax Before The Holidays

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Hello friends, 

For some the holidays are the most wonderful time of the year, yet for others it can be the most stressful time of the year.   The non-stop swirl of activities associated with getting together with family and friends; finding just the right gift for the In-laws or kids; and the dread of blowing the budget can unnerve the best of us.

So before the shopping, cooking, parties and festivities begin, take a little time to relax and rejuvenate, it’s not only good for the body, it’s also good for the soul.

You can create a mini spa at home with just a few items, here are a few of my favorite things that help me to relax and unwind, what are some of yours?

Lodge – Lighted Birch Candle Lighted Canvas Art – 12 x 12 – Ohio Wholesale

Lodge - Lighted Birch Candle Lighted Canvas Art - 12 x 12 - Ohio Wholesale
Sitting quietly in meditation or listening to soothing music, a
s Teddy Pendergrass would say, “turn out the lights and light a candle.”

 

HoMedics – Homedic therapist select Shiatsu Pillow with Heat SP-10H, Black

HoMedics - Homedic therapist select Shiatsu Pillow with Heat SP-10H, Black
A gentle neck and shoulder massage provides relief from the tension of being in the car during those long hours of commuting back and forth to work

 

Interactive Media – Sleep Easy – Guided Meditation, Yoga Nidra Relaxation and Breathing Exercise With Kanta Barrios

Interactive Media - Sleep Easy - Guided Meditation, Yoga Nidra Relaxation and Breathing Exercise With Kanta Barrios
Listening to a meditation tape aids in falling and staying asleep naturally.  

As you know, the lack of a good night’s sleep is a major stressor that can cause mishaps not only on the road but also in the home and at work

Interactive Media – Sleep Easy – Guided Meditation, Yoga Nidra Relaxation and Breathing Exercise With Kanta Barrios – $14.99, 3.98 shipping – Available at Amazon.com

 

Reckitt Benckiser – AIR WICK FRESHMATIC COMPACT i motion Automatic Spray Refill: Relaxation Lavender & Chamomile

Reckitt Benckiser - AIR WICK FRESHMATIC COMPACT i motion Automatic Spray Refill: Relaxation Lavender & Chamomile
This calming compact air freshener is great to keep on the night stand.   

Lavender has long been a scent of relaxation

Reckitt Benckiser – AIR WICK FRESHMATIC COMPACT i motion Automatic Spray Refill: Relaxation Lavender & Chamomile – $17.99, 5.09 shipping – Available at Amazon.com Marketplace

 

Yogi Tea – Kava Stress Relief Tea 16 Teabags

Yogi Tea - Kava Stress Relief Tea 16 Teabags
Curling up on the sofa with a cup of hot tea sometimes is all that I need to relieve the stress of the day!

Yogi Tea – Kava Stress Relief Tea 16 Teabags – $4.46, 6.37 shipping – Available at iHerb

 

Stay Blessed ~ No Stress in 2014!

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