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Give Me My Flowers While I’m Living

Give Me My Flowers While I’m Living 

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In this world today while we’re living
Some folks say the worst of us they can
But when we are dead and in our caskets
They always slip some lilies in our hand

    Won’t you give me my flowers while I’m living
And let me enjoy them while I can
Pleae don’t wait till I’m ready to be buried
And then slip some lilies in my hand

In this world is where we need our flowers
A kind word to help us get along
If you can’t give me flowers while I’m living
Then please don’t throw them when I’m gone

Version:

 Flatt and Scruggs


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Sending these flowers from my house to yours – hope you’re not allergic!

 

Linking up with Whatever Whenever Wednesday – hop on over and meet a new blogger

Have a fantabulous day – Smooches!

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Give Me My Flowers While I'm Living

Give Me My Flowers While I’m Living 

(click to listen)

In this world today while we’re living
Some folks say the worst of us they can
But when we are dead and in our caskets
They always slip some lilies in our hand

    Won’t you give me my flowers while I’m living
And let me enjoy them while I can
Pleae don’t wait till I’m ready to be buried
And then slip some lilies in my hand

In this world is where we need our flowers
A kind word to help us get along
If you can’t give me flowers while I’m living
Then please don’t throw them when I’m gone

Version:

 Flatt and Scruggs


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Sending these flowers from my house to yours – hope you’re not allergic!

 

Linking up with Whatever Whenever Wednesday – hop on over and meet a new blogger

Have a fantabulous day – Smooches!

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OOTD – Thankful Tuesday

Hello Friends, I hope you are having a Thankful Tuesday.

First and foremost I would like to offer up prayers and condolences to those affected by yesterday’s bombing at the Boston Marathon.  Last night at the dinner table I once again emphasized the importance of being thankful, staying positive and living each day as if it were your last because tomorrow is not promised to any of us.  The senseless waste of time on negativity and hatred is time that any of us can ill afford – Stay Blessed my Bloggy friends!

Not just today but every day, we have so much to be thankful for starting with the glorious gifts from Mother Nature.  As much as I dread getting out of bed in the morning, once I’m up and out I feel truly thankful and blessed, how can I not be?

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OOTD 4 16 13 002 Top and Shoes – GW Boutique – Skirt – Closet Staple

OOTD 4 16 13 003 Stacked Bracelets – Rugged Wearhouse, Avon and Flea Market Vendor // Ring – Michael’s //

Earrings – Dress Barn – don’t they match this top perfectly?

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HAVE A THANKFUL TUESDAY – SMOOCHES!

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20 Years Ago Today was the Worse Day of my Life

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

the lowest point – the day I cursed God!

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life,

my son lay in NICU, a mere 3 lbs, living in an incubator with tubes and wires attached to his tiny body

20 Years Ago today was the worse  day of my life

all hell broke loose in Wilmington, DE and hundreds of miles away in Maryland

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

83 days of going back and forth to the hospital to pray with and over our son

him having an aunt, me having a sister

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

souls of these two departed this earthly world

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

around 7:00 in the evening the soul of my lil sis was departing her body

she sat trapped in a burning car, wedged underneath the body of a tractor trailer

being dragged to her untimely death….burning tears filling her eyes as they do mine with the thought of 20 Years Ago today

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

 around 7:00 in the evening the soul of my lil son was departing his body

heart rate dropped, breathing stopped, monitors beeping uncontrollably

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

The souls passed, one guided back to the body while the other ascended into heaven

the soul of the child returned, heart beating strongly, breathing  stabilized, his life restored

20 Years Ago today was the worse day of my life

My mother’s baby daughter and her twin brother, both gone too soon

sis and uncle traveled together for the last time passing through the Pearly Gates

20 Years Ago today was the worse and best day of my life

Rest In Heaven

Gloria Cross, Jr.

4/10/63 ~ 9/14/92

And

Ernest Midget

7/17/42 ~ 9/14/92


Mother's Day Will Be Bittersweet

REPOSTING FROM 2012

Mother’s Day will be bittersweet

  • today at 50, I’ve been a mother for almost 20 years
  • my grandmother was 50 when I was born, she took me & my sis under her wing at the age of 57 and lived to be 98
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • the parent of a 3 month preemie weighed a mere 2.5 lbs, not sure if he would live or die
  • my God is Awesome
  • i look in the mirror and see my mother
  • bore but did not raise me
  • died before I really got to know her
  • feared I would have to care for her in her old age
  • grandmother said in order to live a long life you have to treat everybody right and pray
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • not a friend but a fierce protector and provider
  • mother never saw her grandsons
  • a mother of 2 black males – RIP Trayvon
  • in the store – keep your hands out of your pockets or they think you are stealing
  • don’t lower your eyes
  • know your history – never forget where you came from
  • work hard
  • no fear
  • believe and achieve
  • no drinking drugs or wild and crazy women
  • pray
  • bless your food
  • be grateful
  • study hard
  • eat your food
  • don’t eat too much candy
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • don’t curse, fight, drink or do drugs
  • wash and dry your clothes, sew cook and clean – I am raising some woman’s husband
  • slow down you are driving too fast
  • look in your rear view mirror
  • keep your eyes straight ahead
  • at 98 I held her hand as she transitioned, my guardian angel, my protector, teacher, minister and enforcer
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • you got an “F”!
  • stop crying
  • open up
  • you’ll feel better
  • didn’t i tell you
  • now why did you do that?
  • wait for your brother
  • are you listening to me?
  • what did you say!
  • I love you
  • here, try this
  • be nice
  • save your money
  • get a job
  • go outside and play
  • you have to work hard
  • leave him alone
  • say cheese
  • come here
  • sit down
  • are you crazy
  • what did you do?
  • buried my father
  • never knew my paternal grandparents
  • i had a brother
  • my lil sis is gone
  • i’ll never be an aunt
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • don’t spit that out
  • i said,let’s go
  • stop it
  • Gloria was killed
  • do your homework
  • turn off that tv
  • dinner!
  • have a good day
  • God bless you
  • how was school today?
  • change your clothes
  • clean your room
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • get up!
  • make your bed
  • breakfast!
  • take out the trash
  • stop it!
  • working hard until he graduates from college
  • remembering the fear of his first day on the bus, bigger fear, first day driving alone
  • emergency room visits
  • months and months in the hospital
  • surgeries, feeding tubes, iv’s, central lines, rsv, nicu, picu
  • what did i do to deserve this
  • God why?
  • teach me how to swim
  • can’t breast feed
  • crying all the time
  • will this ever end?
  • fell off the bike
  • pregnant again…fear
  • water broke…uh oh
  • never got a maternity leave
  • slow down
  • barium swallows, mri’s
  • mcdonald’s ball pit
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • pediasure, pedylyte, nebulizer, syringe, pulse ox, nurses
  • pick that up
  • put that back
  • don’t play with that
  • leave it alone
  • boy don’t make me come and get you
  • i’m an orphan-no mother
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • ieps, department of disabilities, nurses and kids, special ed classes, mainstreaming
  • go sit down!
  • come here
  • where you goin?
  • i’ll put the ashes in the coffin with mama
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet

    My mother in high school

    My grandmother~mother~father~friend

    My sister ~ RIP


Mother’s Day Will Be Bittersweet

REPOSTING FROM 2012

Mother’s Day will be bittersweet

  • today at 50, I’ve been a mother for almost 20 years
  • my grandmother was 50 when I was born, she took me & my sis under her wing at the age of 57 and lived to be 98
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • the parent of a 3 month preemie weighed a mere 2.5 lbs, not sure if he would live or die
  • my God is Awesome
  • i look in the mirror and see my mother
  • bore but did not raise me
  • died before I really got to know her
  • feared I would have to care for her in her old age
  • grandmother said in order to live a long life you have to treat everybody right and pray
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • not a friend but a fierce protector and provider
  • mother never saw her grandsons
  • a mother of 2 black males – RIP Trayvon
  • in the store – keep your hands out of your pockets or they think you are stealing
  • don’t lower your eyes
  • know your history – never forget where you came from
  • work hard
  • no fear
  • believe and achieve
  • no drinking drugs or wild and crazy women
  • pray
  • bless your food
  • be grateful
  • study hard
  • eat your food
  • don’t eat too much candy
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • don’t curse, fight, drink or do drugs
  • wash and dry your clothes, sew cook and clean – I am raising some woman’s husband
  • slow down you are driving too fast
  • look in your rear view mirror
  • keep your eyes straight ahead
  • at 98 I held her hand as she transitioned, my guardian angel, my protector, teacher, minister and enforcer
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • you got an “F”!
  • stop crying
  • open up
  • you’ll feel better
  • didn’t i tell you
  • now why did you do that?
  • wait for your brother
  • are you listening to me?
  • what did you say!
  • I love you
  • here, try this
  • be nice
  • save your money
  • get a job
  • go outside and play
  • you have to work hard
  • leave him alone
  • say cheese
  • come here
  • sit down
  • are you crazy
  • what did you do?
  • buried my father
  • never knew my paternal grandparents
  • i had a brother
  • my lil sis is gone
  • i’ll never be an aunt
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • don’t spit that out
  • i said,let’s go
  • stop it
  • Gloria was killed
  • do your homework
  • turn off that tv
  • dinner!
  • have a good day
  • God bless you
  • how was school today?
  • change your clothes
  • clean your room
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • get up!
  • make your bed
  • breakfast!
  • take out the trash
  • stop it!
  • working hard until he graduates from college
  • remembering the fear of his first day on the bus, bigger fear, first day driving alone
  • emergency room visits
  • months and months in the hospital
  • surgeries, feeding tubes, iv’s, central lines, rsv, nicu, picu
  • what did i do to deserve this
  • God why?
  • teach me how to swim
  • can’t breast feed
  • crying all the time
  • will this ever end?
  • fell off the bike
  • pregnant again…fear
  • water broke…uh oh
  • never got a maternity leave
  • slow down
  • barium swallows, mri’s
  • mcdonald’s ball pit
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • pediasure, pedylyte, nebulizer, syringe, pulse ox, nurses
  • pick that up
  • put that back
  • don’t play with that
  • leave it alone
  • boy don’t make me come and get you
  • i’m an orphan-no mother
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet
  • ieps, department of disabilities, nurses and kids, special ed classes, mainstreaming
  • go sit down!
  • come here
  • where you goin?
  • i’ll put the ashes in the coffin with mama
  • Mother’s Day will be bittersweet

    My mother in high school

    My grandmother~mother~father~friend

    My sister ~ RIP