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Ready for Retirement | Avoid these Mistakes

Hello Friends and Happy Tuesday

 

retired couple Have you and your spouse started thinking about retirement?  Perhaps it’s several years off or maybe in the not-so-distant future.  What are your plans, will you be traveling or just relaxing on the back deck watching the sun rise while sipping your morning coffee?

Hubby will be retiring from the State of Delaware in July, but since I have at least 5 more years, he has to wait for me…and while he waits, he will be working no doubt about it.  Just because he’s retiring with a full pension doesn’t negate the fact that we’ll have a son in college and bills to pay.  

Retirement should be a dream come true filled with fun and excitement but if you make mistakes in not planning, that dream can quickly turn into a nightmare.  

According to the experts, there are 7 mistakes that couples should avoid if they want their retirement years to be truly golden.

  1. Couples never talked about what each of them expected retirement to be, i.e. personal interest or professional goals
  2. They haven’t planned for emergencies, i.e. illnesses, accidents and major home repairs
  3. Couples in their 2nd marriages didn’t plan for unique problems that come with blended families, ie. adult children needing financial assistance
  4. They didn’t do proper financial planning.  i.e. fail to calculate the amount of money needed in retirement, lifestyle and living costs changes
  5. Hospitalizations Couples didn’t consider the high costs of health care or long-term care
  6. Assuming that because you are married you can act for each other in business and health care decisions, consider getting a Power of Attorney
  7. Only one partner is handling financial matters – couples need to talk regularly about finances and both should actively participate

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If you and your spouse haven’t sat down and talked about your retirement plans, the time to do so is now so you can make those golden years tarnish free!

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What are your thoughts?

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Book Signing with Author Jacqueline Charmane

On Sunday, a second book signing was held at The Java House Cafe in Middletown with local author, Jacqueline Charmane.  Jacqueline’s book, They Raped Me Once Over and Over Again is her fifth book and the first one not self-published.  In addition to being an author, Jacqueline is a Christian Evangelist and a Comedian (Mother Maeye).  As a student at The University of Delaware she received numerous awards and accolades and was even honored as “Most Likely to Succeed” but her dreams were turned into nightmares and she dropped out of school.

Jacqueline eventually returned to school and began working for the Federal Reserve Bank of Philadelphia and while commuting on a train she met her rapist and father of her only son.  Rejected she hid the truth and married her boyfriend who thought the child was his.  This true story is of how her courage, determination and faith in God helped her survive an abusive marriage, kidnapping of her son, a divorce, depression, a mental breakdown and then the near death of her son.

They Raped Me Once Over and Over Again is not for the faint of heart, it’s a graphic real life account about the things men do to women and the things women do to survive, it will definitely change the way you think about life.  Jacqueline’s other books are “A Journal of 52 Days To Your Prosperity“, “I Don’t Do “FRIEND” Marry Me or Be Alone”, “Satan’s Dirty Little Secret Is Out” and “Knowing and Possessing The Attributes of God”

For more information and signing dates, please go to www.jacquelinecharmane.com or call 302-357-4969.

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Author Jacqueline Charmane

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Mark, owner of The Java House Cafe introducing Jacqueline

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Members of a local book club discussing upcoming events in Middletown

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Jacqueline Charmane discussing “They Raped Me Once Over and Over Again”

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My signed copy of “A Journal of 52 Days To Your Prosperity” April 2013 057